Finding love encouraged this bearded lady to embrace her facial hair

27th Feb 18 | Real Life

Nova used to shave her face every day - but after meeting Ash, she found the strength to ditch the razor, and is now proud of her look.

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A woman has revealed how, after a decade of shaving her face, finding love with a stunning model gave her the confidence to grow a “hipster beard.”

Ash Byrd, 25, instantly accepted a date with bearded lady Nova Galaxia, 26, who made an approach after seeing the model in a fashion show.

A couple for six years, Ash, of Virginia Beach, Virginia, USA, said of video transcriber Nova, 26: "I love her beard. It's a part of us as a couple now.”

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Finding love with Ash gave Nova the confidence to grow her beard (Collect/PA Real Life)

Ash went on: "Yes people do stop and stare at us, watch us walk down the street and ask Nova random questions to determine her gender, but she’s never been happier and that makes me proud.

"I adore her, beard and all."

Nova, who has polycystic ovary syndrome (PCOS) - where hormonal imbalances cause a woman to develop cysts on her ovaries and grow excess facial hair, suffered years of bullying about her beard.

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Nova’s partner Ash loves the beard (Collect/PA Real Life)

Aged 11 when her periods started, they then stopped, suddenly, a year later, never resuming – which has been attributed to taking birth control pills to regulate her hormones for the PCOS as a teenager.

She also began developing facial hair, which she shaved and was diagnosed with PCOS, aged 15 – only telling those close to her about her condition.

"A boy in my class at high school pointed at my face and said I had a better beard than he probably ever would," Nova recalled.

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Nova receives many positive comments about her beard (Collect/PA Real Life)

Continuing: "By this stage, I was shaving every single day before school. It was getting really thick and I would have a panic if I ever forgot my razor at sleepovers.

"I'd get up early and shave, pretending I was desperate for a shower, but really I couldn't stand to let myself be seen with a beard.

"I confided in my long-term girlfriend at the time, but apart from that, very few people knew. It was my dark secret, because of the pressures from society on women to shave all their hair off and conform. I was worried people would think I was a freak if I let my hair grow out."

But Nova’s life changed after finding the courage to ask Ash, who does not identify as male or female, out on a date in 2012.

Nova said: "I saw Ash on the runway and I thought ‘how cute’. We got talking and I realised this gorgeous model and me had a lot in common.

"I asked Ash out, we went on a date and were living together three months later."

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She says she is happier now than she has ever been (Collect/PA Real Life)

Within weeks of dating, Nova shared her secret, with partner Ash responding: “I’ll love you no matter what.”

When they first met, Nova was shaving her face, back, chest and legs.

She continued: “It was becoming too much. I started speaking more about my condition and telling friends that I shaved my face. That's when I realised I wasn't alone and everyone loved me for me, not for the way I looked."

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Nova and Ash met six years ago (Collect/PA Real Life)

A major turning point came last year when British woman Harnaam Kaur, 24, who also has PCOS, hit the headlines after bravely growing out her beard and talking about the condition – inspiring Nova to follow suit.

So, on October 31, 2017, backed by Ash, she threw her razor away, embracing her facial hair - and has never looked back.

"It was scary at the start, but now I love my beard. I shampoo and condition it every day and always make sure it's been beautifully brushed to keep it looking it's best,” she said.

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Nova now embraces her facial hair (Collect/PA Real Life)

Nova continued: "People don't talk about PCOS, even though it's really common and I want more women to realise they are not alone."

Despite some negative reactions from strangers, Nova has received a lot of positive comments about her beard – not least from Ash, who said it looked “cute.”

"People will come up to me and ask really random questions, just so they can hear me speak and see if my voice helps them to determine my gender," she said. “I've received some cruel comments from strangers and trolls online.”

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Nova shaved her face every morning before school(Collect/PA Real Life)

Nova added: “People have accused me of pretending to be woman, or they think I’m transgender, but I don't care. It's not an insult to be trans, I'm just not – I’m a gay woman.

"Anyway, with my hipster beard, I feel happier now than I have ever been. I am with someone I love, who supports my decision and loves me for me and my beard. I have no idea when I am going to stop growing it. It's a part of me now, and I love it."

And Ash, who also works part-time in a sandwich shop, is full of praise for Nova’s new look.

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Nova wants other PCOS women to realise that they’re not alone (Collect/PA Real Life)

Ash added: "I find her beard really tickly when we kiss, but in a good way. I've not told my mum about her facial hair yet, but she'll find out when we see her next.

"It's a part of who Nova is now, she is so confident and that's really attractive, too."

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